What I Wish I Knew Before Going Independent
Lessons from stylists who left the salon to build their own thing.
Sarah Mitchell
Content strategist with a passion for helping businesses grow.

Three years ago, Jasmine left a busy salon to rent her own suite.
She had a full book. Clients who loved her. Skills that spoke for themselves.
She thought the hard part was over.
She was wrong.
The fantasy vs. the reality
The fantasy:
- Set your own hours
- Keep all your money
- No more salon drama
- Be your own boss
The reality:
- You're never truly "off"
- Money comes with responsibilities
- You're now HR, marketing, and accounting
- Being the boss means making hard decisions alone
Going independent is worth it. But go in with open eyes.
Lesson 1: Your clients aren't as loyal as you think
Jasmine assumed all her clients would follow her.
70% did. The other 30%?
- Some liked the convenience of the old location
- Some had loyalty to the salon, not just her
- Some didn't want to "make it weird"
- Some just... disappeared
Plan for 60-70% retention. Build a cushion for the transition.
Lesson 2: You need systems from day one
At the salon, Jasmine just showed up and cut hair. Someone else handled:
- Booking
- Confirmations
- No-show policies
- Client records
- Product ordering
- Payment processing
Suddenly, it was all her.
Week one mistake: She used her personal phone for bookings. Texts at 11pm. Confusion about times. No record of anything.
The fix: Get proper booking software before you open. Not after you're drowning.
Lesson 3: Marketing never stops
At a busy salon, walk-ins and the salon's reputation feed you clients.
On your own? Crickets.
Jasmine had to learn:
- Instagram content creation
- Google Business optimization
- How to ask for reviews
- Referral incentives
- Local networking
The uncomfortable truth: You're now a marketer who happens to do hair. At least 10% of your time will be marketing.
Lesson 4: Money gets complicated
Gross revenue isn't income.
Jasmine's first month: $8,000 in services. She felt rich.
Then came:
- Suite rent: $1,200
- Products: $600
- Insurance: $200
- Software subscriptions: $150
- Taxes (set aside 25-30%): $2,000
- Continuing education: $100
Actual take-home: About $3,750.
Not bad—but very different from $8,000.
Track everything. Know your real numbers.
Lesson 5: Loneliness is real
This one surprised Jasmine the most.
She thought she hated salon drama. Turns out, she missed:
- Having people to talk to between clients
- Learning from watching others work
- The energy of a busy room
- Someone to cover when she was sick
Solutions that helped:
- Suite communities with shared spaces
- Industry networking groups
- Regular coffee dates with other independents
- Online communities
Lesson 6: Boundaries are your job now
At a salon, the front desk is the gatekeeper.
Independently, you're the gatekeeper. Which means learning to:
- Say no to clients who don't respect your time
- Enforce cancellation policies
- Not respond to messages at midnight
- Take actual days off
If you don't set boundaries, clients will set them for you. And you won't like their version.
Lesson 7: The right tools save you
After six chaotic months, Jasmine finally invested in proper systems:
- Booking software → No more text message scheduling
- Client management → Notes and history in one place
- Automated reminders → Fewer no-shows
- Online payments → No more "I forgot my wallet"
- Analytics → Finally knew her real numbers
The cost: About $50/month. The time saved: Hours every week. The stress reduced: Immeasurable.
Would she do it again?
Absolutely.
But she'd do it differently:
- Save 6 months of expenses first
- Set up systems before opening
- Expect client loss and plan for it
- Build a support network early
- Charge what she's worth from day one
Going independent is worth it—with preparation
The freedom is real. The income potential is real. The satisfaction is real.
But so is the work. So is the responsibility. So is the learning curve.
Go in prepared, and you'll thrive.
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